Divorce Doula » Second chances http://divorcedoula.me Welcome to the After Wife Fri, 29 Nov 2013 19:28:49 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.6.1 Erase the Date: what happens to your anniversary after divorce? http://divorcedoula.me/erase-the-date/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=erase-the-date http://divorcedoula.me/erase-the-date/#comments Fri, 29 Nov 2013 19:28:49 +0000 Pamela http://divorcedoula.me/?p=654 I still have the Save the Date! postcard we sent to our friends & family to announce our engagement and wedding date. It was a cheeky, goofy, blatantly non-traditional design that captured our quirky personalities.  The wedding day was pure joy followed by epic mishap. Lather, rinse, repeat. In other words, it was a perfectly […]

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]]> http://divorcedoula.me/erase-the-date/feed/ 14 Until death do us part? Redefining what makes a marriage successful http://divorcedoula.me/happily-never-after-redefining-what-it-means-to-have-a-successful-marriage/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=happily-never-after-redefining-what-it-means-to-have-a-successful-marriage http://divorcedoula.me/happily-never-after-redefining-what-it-means-to-have-a-successful-marriage/#comments Wed, 07 Aug 2013 02:47:55 +0000 Pamela http://divorcedoula.me/?p=564 It’s that time of year…Summer time = Wedding season. In my circle it also means anniversary season.  Starting in June, my social media news feed is filled declarations of love, commitment & gratitude from one spouse to the other, thanking him/her for 10…17…29 years of wedded bliss. These postings are usually accompanied by a photo […]

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]]> http://divorcedoula.me/happily-never-after-redefining-what-it-means-to-have-a-successful-marriage/feed/ 11 Lessons learned from dating after divorce & how to be happy within and without http://divorcedoula.me/breaking-up-is-hard-to-do-but-it-doesnt-have-to-be/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=breaking-up-is-hard-to-do-but-it-doesnt-have-to-be http://divorcedoula.me/breaking-up-is-hard-to-do-but-it-doesnt-have-to-be/#comments Sat, 13 Jul 2013 18:51:53 +0000 Pamela http://divorcedoula.me/?p=541 Not all break ups have to be devastating. In fact, they can be perfectly mature & respectful if both parties are open & honest. Shocking, but true! Story at 11! Some backstory: I was recently in a relationship with a lovely man. We were together for more than 6 months, ran together, travelled together & […]

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]]> http://divorcedoula.me/breaking-up-is-hard-to-do-but-it-doesnt-have-to-be/feed/ 1 How I Met Your Mother: when do you introduce your kids to your new love? http://divorcedoula.me/how-i-met-your-mother-introducing-the-kids/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-i-met-your-mother-introducing-the-kids http://divorcedoula.me/how-i-met-your-mother-introducing-the-kids/#comments Tue, 23 Apr 2013 02:58:50 +0000 Pamela http://divorcedoula.me/?p=324 “How long should I wait before I introduce my kids to my new partner?” If I had a dime for every time I’ve been asked this question, I’d be one rich Divorce Doula! I’d probably even stop writing this cash cow of a blog, patent some cookie cutter response & then sit back to watch the […]

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